Beginner's Guide to Using the Big Black Dildo

Author: Bestvibe Date:30-05-2022

Fact: Size does matter.

At least that's what anyone who has used a big black dildo at some point will tell you. The sex toy industry is saturated with different dildos, from vibrating ones to anal dildos, and squirting dildos. Then along comes a special kind of dildo – the big black dildo with its massive size and girth. The big black dildo has its own fan base. The main characteristic of big black dildos is their massive size (girth and length) and features that resemble those of an actual penis. They can be intimidating, especially if you are only getting started in the sex toy game. However, compared to other dildos, big black dildos are very satisfying and immensely pleasurable, and there is no going back once you use one. So, if you're thinking about taking your dildo game to the next level, a big black dildo will do. 

Buying A Big Black Dildo: Things to Consider

There are so many types of big black dildos. Therefore, it's important to know how to select the right one. Size, design, material, and purpose are things you should consider when you are buying a big black dildo. Read on to find out how these features will affect your purchase. 

Size Matters

Big black dildos, just as the name suggests, are huge compared to standard dildos. But even then, they still come in different sizes. It is one of the most important features to consider for a beginner. When you buy a dildo, you want to go with the biggest you can find. The image of that enormous shaft pleasuring you to intense toe-curling orgasms is exciting. But hold your horses! We don't want you rushing to shove a dildo the size of your boyfriend's arm inside you if you've never used a massive dildo before. So, it's better to go for a smaller black dildo first and work your way up when you've mastered the technique or gotten used to the size.


Dildos have only one purpose; to provide internal stimulation through vaginal or anal play. Most dildos, including the infamous big black dildos, are designed to pleasure certain sweet spots like the G-spot or P-spot. So, if you are buying a big black dildo because you want to stimulate specific points, pay attention to the shape of the dildo. For instance, some big black dildos are curved to stroke the G-spot giving you intense vaginal orgasms. 


Big black dildos are made from either rubber, PVC, glass, metal, or a unique blend of different materials. Some women like a big black dildo that can bend and curve at will to stimulate all the right spots, while others prefer them firm but equally satisfying. If you belong to the first category, go for a dildo made of PVC or plastic or a blend of the two. 


The world of sex toys gets better and better every time. Dildos, for instance, have come a long in terms of versatility. Dildos that provide more than one action are perfect. But the question is, just how versatile do you want your big black dildo? Do you want a dildo that you can use for vaginal and anal stimulation? What about vibration? Do you want a realistic dildo or one that has multiple vibration modes? At the end of the day, you want a big black dildo that meets all your sexual needs regardless of whether you will be using it alone or with a partner. After all, you are spending your money, so you might as well get your money's worth. 

How To Use a Big Black Dildo as A Beginner

Now comes the most important part. You've already ordered your big black dildo, so how do you use it? Because of their enormous sizes, big black dildos require some safety precautions, especially if you are a beginner. Even if you are buying a big black dildo to use with your partner, it's always a good idea to take it on a test ride first. This way, you can pay attention to how it makes you feel and what feels comfortable. 

Ensure You Are Relaxed

A black dildo is like any other dildo you've used, except for the massive size. Yes, the size can be intimidating when you take it out of the box, but it's nothing you can't handle if you know how to go about it. So, first thing's first; make sure you are relaxed. And how do you do that? Get yourself in the mood; however, you do that to make penetration easy. 

Lubricate, Lubricate, Lubricate

We cannot insist on this enough. A big black dildo is enormous, and there is no way of getting around that size without proper lubrication. Like with any other sex toy, have some lube in hand. Water-based lubes or silicone-based lubes are the most popular, but it comes down to the material of your dildo. For instance, while silicone-based lubes are long-lasting, they can damage silicone dildos. Before using the dildo, put enough lubricant on it. If you are using it for anal penetration, make sure you replenish the lube from time to time. 

Start Slow

I know. The massive size is fascinating, and you can't wait to get started but don't be in a hurry. You have all the time in the world to explore your new toy. Before you insert your big black dildo, rub it on your external genitalia and see what that feels like. Stimulate your labia, vulva, clitoris, and anus as you build up the excitement to penetration. And when you do penetrate, start slowly moving the dildo in and out and adapt to how it feels.  

Build a Good Rhythm

As you get comfortable with the penetration, you can experiment with different speeds and rhythms. You could opt for slow and steady movements or fast and erratic ones. Whatever gets you there, do it! And when you know what works and what doesn't work, make sure your partner(s) know. 

Experiment With Different Angles and Depth

Deep penetration can be very pleasurable and, at the same time, painful for some people. A big black dildo is not only thick but long as well. In all the excitement, you might end up going too deep. If you do that and there is pain, stop and start again. With a big black dildo, you can adjust the length by holding the toy by the shaft. While at it, try different angles to stimulate even the G-spot. As you get used to the dildo, you can take it to the next level by adding other sex toys like a wand, bullet, or rabbit vibrator


A big black dildo is one of those sex toys that every woman should own at some point. These types of dildos are enormous, which makes them so popular. However, as a beginner, go slow. If you've never used dildos before, a big black dildo can be very intimidating. But if you get the right size and learn how to use it, there is no limit to what you can do with it. 


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