The 10 Best Dildo on bestvibe.com for April 2022

Dildos are sex toys that you can put into the mouth, anus, or vagina, are a girl’s best friend!  While they are sometimes meant to feel like a penis, they don’t have to look like one. They come in all different materials, shapes, and sizes. Some dildos are curved in order to stimulate the prostate or g-spot.

There are many different kinds of dildos. You can find ones that are:

• Made to look like a penis with testicles
• Made to be strapped on with a harness
• Meant for two partners to use at once, called double-sided or double-penetration dildos
• Vibrating dildos
• Made with a suction base to adhere to a surface
• Glass or metal dildos

Top 10 Best Dildos in 2022

Why People Like Them

Dildos are popular with people of all genders and sexualities.

Sometimes they can have a medical purpose. Some sexual medicine experts recommend them as part of therapy for vaginismus, or pelvic floor muscle spasms. 

Dildos can provide internal stimulation to the g-spot, prostate, or other parts of the vagina or anus. They can also play a psychological role in arousal and sex play. 

For you, first-timers

Welcome to a land of pleasure and happiness, folks. Raise your hands if you’ve never had a dildo or sex before. One, two, three…God, there are so many of you! But don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. We are glad to talk about the best dildos for virgins in terms of the sex toy industry.

What’s the Difference Between Dildos and Vibrators?

Dildos and vibrators are both sex toys, and there’s a fair amount of overlap between their functions. The biggest difference is that not all dildos can vibrate, though some do.

Some vibrators are designed to be used externally during solo or partner play, and others are made to be inserted in the vagina or anus.

Can dildos make you orgasm?

It depends how you orgasm and how you use your dildo. If you struggle to orgasm through penetration alone (more than 75% of vulva owners do) and need clitoral stimulation to get you going, a dildo might not help. Dildos don't tend to provide any more clit stimulation than a penis would. In that case, you might consider a clit vibrator instead. 

If you can orgasm from penetration alone, then yes, you might find a dildo will make you orgasm. 

The caveat to the above? Even if you fall into the former camp, vulva-owners might be able to use a dildo in a way that “works”. You could use your dildo while also rubbing your clit or simultaneously using a vibrator, or, if you have a vibrating dildo, you could grind on it at an angle where you hit your G-spot and clitoris at the same time. The sky is the limit. 

It’s important to realise that there is a great misconception and expectation for women to easily climax from penetrative sex or dildos, This is not the case, it’s different for everyone, and using a dildo as an explorative tool on your erogenous zones is a great way to find out what feels good, and if you can orgasm from penetration. Don’t put pressure on yourself, just focus on relaxing and exploring yourself.

Myths about Dildos

Some people worry when their partner wants to use a dildo. They fear that it means their partner is sexually dissatisfied or that the dildo will replace them sexually.

However, studies on the use of sex toys have found that they can aid sexual relationships between committed couples. In relationships marked by open communication, sex toys may enhance sexual experiences and intimacy. 

Bigger isn’t always better.

A large dildo might not do it for you unless you know that bigger really feels better for your body. For starters, think about any penetration experiences that have been pleasurable—or for that matter, too much or not enough—and do your best to guesstimate the size of fingers, object, penis, or whatever it was that you know you liked or know you didn’t. Then choose accordingly.

There are other important factors to choose from, such as girth (its thickness) and insertable length. You don’t have to insert the entire toy if it isn’t comfortable to do so! When using a dildo by hand, you can just hold it at the shaft near the base if you want to insert a limited part of its full length. 

Which materials are safest for dildos?

That the safest material is the kind that’s easiest to keep clean. Silicone, glass, metal, and hard plastics are easiest to clean because they are not porous. Some other materials are harder to keep clean and if you choose one of those, use a condom with it. One material to watch for is jelly rubber, which is formulated with a chemical softener called phthalates, and some consider it a toxic material. Good Vibrations stopped carrying this material well over a decade ago, and we don’t recommend it. It’s also the most porous, generally.

Lastly: It's highly recommended you use lube with your dildo.

A good lubricant is always a good idea, but even more so with dildos. That their material has more friction than skin does, so to make the experience more smooth and slick-feeling, pair your dildo with your go-to lube for the most optimal experience. And if you're using a silicone toy, don't use silicone lube with it; go with a water-based one like Bestvibe's 10 Fl Oz Water Based Lube.

If you feel any discomfort while using a dildo, stop. You may need more lubricant or a smaller size.